Hi Doug,
Apologies for the delay in getting back to you, it's been a busy few days.
Your last 'netstat' screen shot suggests to me that PF3 wasn't actually running at the time - the SYN_SENT message indicates that PF3 Display was trying to make a connection to port 1008, so the configuration seems OK (I see exactly the same on my system if I fire up PF3 Display without PF3 running).
Could you perhaps try again and run the netstat command after you've started FS and connected PF3, but before you start PF3 Display?
Then run netstat again after you start PF3 Display.
Thanks,
Martin